Helping quiet, compassionate leaders step out of the shadows and into positions of power

Quiet, compassionate people have invaluable leadership qualities that organizations need.

Other leaders may struggle with listening, reading the room, or building rapport and trust.

For the quiet, compassionate leader, these skills are locked into their innate way of being.

It’s not about changing who they are. It’s about harnessing who they are.

With specialized coaching, I help these leaders bring their value to the forefront, creating ripples of impact extending far beyond themselves.

Quiet power.
Compassionate influence.

the forgotten art

Quiet, compassionate leaders have typically received little guidance and few role models for how to lead with their innate qualities in the workplace.

They have often been taught to hide their sensitivity and override their intuition.

They’ve been surrounded by traditional training, mainstream media, and even best-selling books that portray a one-sided story of leadership that leaves them out.

It’s time to allow this natural and beautiful style of leadership to emerge in our lives and organizations.

“I feel more centred and stronger in myself, and I don’t silently ask for permission to express my needs anymore.”

SHELLEY WILSON-ROBERTS / Manager, New Westminster Public Library

“I’ve become much more comfortable in a position of authority with my team and have learned to trust my judgement.”

ELS KUSHNER / Branch Head, Vancouver Public Library

Andrea Freeman

MLIS, PCC

When I was a young professional working in organizations, I struggled to find relatable role models and masked my introversion to fit in. Despite my unique strengths, I held back, feeling unable to fully contribute.

Everything changed when I met a compassionate leadership mentor who showed me the value of being authentically me. I learned to embrace my strengths and use them to excel in my career, becoming an Executive Director of an influential organization at the age of 35.

My ability to pick up on unspoken concerns, gauge audience reactions, and detect project challenges became my superpowers. Inspired by my mentor’s example and backed by research from the Center for Organizational Learning at MIT, I experienced firsthand how quiet, compassionate leadership can unlock potential and drive success.

  • PCC
    Professional Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation

    CPCC
    Coactive Professional Certified Coach

    MLIS
    Masters in Library and Information Studies from the University of British Columbia

    Mentored closely by an embodied leadership expert for 5 years

  • ON LEADERSHIP: Mitch Saunders, Brene Brown, Simon Sinek

    ON COACHING: Nancy Kline, Mitch Saunders

    ON ORGANIZATIONAL SYSTEMS: Peter Senge, Adam Grant

    ON DIALOGUE: William Isaacs, Mitch Saunders

    ON SELF-COMPASSION: Kristen Neff, Pema Chodron

    ON SOMATIC HEALING: Ron Kurtz, Stanley Keleman, Georgia Marvin

  • I grew up in Minnesota where I came to appreciate at an early age that I could pick up on things in the people around me that were often invisible to them. It would take 20 years until I learned this was called “empathy” after scoring 99/100 on an EQ test at one of my first organizational roles. I thought this was something everyone could do.

    This started me on the path of learning, very slowly, that what I innately have inside of me is not something to take for granted. And in fact, it has been the “secret sauce” that has enabled my career to thrive.

    I went from blushing whenever I had to speak off the cuff in an executive meeting, to being able to calmly and effectively communicate in a way that made executives nod and agree. I became recognized for my ability to successfully lead diverse teams and draw out hidden potential in challenging staff. I climbed the ladder until I was managing a department of 100+ people and a project with a $20+ million budget, winning positions over more experienced competition.

    I brought the same commitment to deep, meaningful growth when I made the career switch to coaching—with a four-year journey getting certified as a coach, while additionally being mentored in embodied leadership by a reputable Silicon Valley organizational coach and consultant.

    Now I celebrate my innate and unique ability to connect deeply in relationships, to remember what people tell me about their families, their hopes, their fears, and to champion those around me by sharing the greatness I see in them.

Andrea in black and white looking to the left
Andrea laughing with her arms behind her head, showing tattoos on her arms
Andrea smiling directly at the camera in a colour photograph

Today, with more than 700 hours of coaching under my belt, my mission is to help other quiet, compassionate leaders activate their untapped power.

In doing so, they will create ripples that transform the people, teams and projects around them.

My customized approach activates innate strengths across 3 key areas:

  • Learn how to impact with your presence before speaking a word, and dial in to the exact presence needed for particular situations.

  • Learn how to influence and engage others through meaningful connection

  • Learn how to trust your insights and communicate them with calm conviction.

I work intimately with individuals in the context of their whole organizational system, connecting personal challenges to organizational priorities.

  • "I went from doubting my ideas and not speaking up to proposing a major EDI initiative that has been well received. I feel a night and day difference inside myself."

    Allan Cho, Information Professional, University of British Columbia

  • "The knowledge I gained during our time together gave me the tools to successfully show up in a pivotal professional encounter and navigate a problematic relationship."

    Rebecca Lahr, Data Integration Specialist, Target

  • “Working with Andrea was a truly joyful experience! She had the uncanny ability to get me out of my head and into my heart and body (not easy for someone like me.)"

    Tricia Bolender, Executive Coach and Strategic Advisor

  • "I can’t recommend Andrea highly enough for group facilitation and anything related to developing effective leaders who can thoughtfully and ethically influence.”

    Elizabeth Tracy, CAO, Village of Pemberton

  • "Andrea is an excellent coach and teacher, she structured our sessions so they were high impact and customized to my needs. Highly recommend!"

    Katie Wyka, Performance Coach, Clio

  • "I rely on Andrea to listen to what I say (and don’t say), ask questions that make me dig deep, and help me make the decision that I know is best for me, even if it’s uncomfortable sometimes."

    Maryn Ashdown, Director, Neighbourhood and Youth Services, Vancouver Public Library

  • "I particularly appreciated how Andrea was available to review documents and provide valuable feedback in between coaching sessions. If you want a solid thinking partner who will challenge you and follow through, I recommend you work with Andrea.”

    Ray Lyons, VP Product, eSpark

  • "Coaching with Andrea helped me set a career shift in motion and her remarkable talent for connecting goals to physical presence has had a lasting impact.”

    Christine Vandebeek, Founder and Principal, Effectegy

  • "I am excited to begin this new professional chapter with the self-knowledge and confidence I gained through our sessions."

    Chris Savory, Applied Learning & Cooperative Education Office Coordinator, Camosun College

  • “I started a new job and after coaching with Andrea, I'm having clear conversations about expectations, asking questions and inviting feedback from my new colleagues. This is accelerating my ability to add value to my new role.”

    Nicole Sroka, Director of Privacy, Senior Product and Privacy Counsel, YipIt Data

  • “I learned how even small changes in how I hold my body can unlock new ideas and possibilities. The somatic work we did together helped me learn how to hold steady and stay in touch with myself, even when I’m feeling triggered in a challenging conversation.”

    Kendra Loewen, Coach and Non Profit Consultant

  • "Through Andrea’s guidance with somatic exercises, I am now more in control of my own reaction to challenging situations."

    Kirsten Anderson, Librarian, Greater Victoria Public Library

  • "While I initially hesitated over the cost of coaching, I’m so glad I invested in myself. I wouldn’t be where I am today without this experience.”

    Carmen Broder, Senior Copywriter and Managing Editor

  • "With Andrea’s unique combination of support/reassurance/empathy and brass-tacks realism, I’ve taken a lot of uncomfortable but necessary steps and am now in a leadership role that I love."

    Els Kushner, Branch Head, Vancouver Public Library

  • "I learned not to put my self worth into outside measures of success, that my unique skills still hold value, and to listen more closely to my inner dialogue and make sure it aligns with what feels right."

    Sara Tomlin, Library Services Associate & Creative Entrepreneur

I work with organizations as well as individuals.

Many individual clients access funding for my services through their company.

I’m here to answer all your questions, start with my FAQ.

 

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